It was a Sunday afternoon and I got a call from the Ex. He had to rush his girlfriend to the hospital because she was having some serious contractions, and it is two weeks early. Since my two tween-aged boys were there, I went and picked them up. My oldest then said to me, “What […]
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Some people thrive in their victimhood, but it’s important to find true happiness after divorce so that you can grow and be the person you want to be.
When we divorce, we are faced again with the decision to change our last name. This can give us an identity crisis, so here are a few things to consider.
According to a recent study, 90% of all divorces are initiated by college-educated women. Why do women initiate divorce than men?
If you allow yourself to be both brave and vulnerable, you might just find that love really can be lovelier the second time around.
Funny thing about divorce, I never knew how much I hated having alone time. Just lying in bed at night alone in my apartment on nights that he had the boys were so hard. I would either watch TV or read until I couldn’t bear to keep my eyes open any longer. I felt scared. Every […]
For most people who go through a divorce, they just want to feel better. They want to hit that fast forward button and get through with it already. Divorce is the most painful thing many people will ever encounter in the lives next to a death. You can get through it faster, and you can […]
While we step into a divorce, we are consumed by emotions. Our spouse is consumed by emotions. When our emotions are steering the ship, a lot can go wrong. People fight, we provoke each other, we spiral into a depressed abyss. Why does this happen? It is simple: We are allowing our thoughts to create […]