I’ve been there! If you are lucky your divorce will be conflict free, over and done and you can move on.
If you aren’t lucky if the conflict is high and the legal process of divorce lasts months or, in some cases years you can begin to feel as if there is no end and at times can forget there was even a beginning.
Divorce is a legal and emotional process. You’re going to navigate the legal process of divorce more smoothly if take care of yourself emotionally during the process.
For your own sanity, below are 5 things you should always do during the divorce process.
1. Seek Professional Help:
Consulting a mental health professional or coach can be a great way to manage your emotional state during a divorce. A therapist can help you to process your emotions, work through any trauma, and provide you with strategies to cope with the stress of the situation.
A divorce coach can help you set goals and create strategies for rebuilding your life after your divorce is final.
2. Take Time for Yourself:
Set aside time each day to do something you enjoy, something that relaxes you and brings you peace. Whether that’s reading a book, going for a walk in nature, meditating, or simply taking a bath, taking time for yourself will help to keep your emotional health in check.
Set boundaries with yourself regarding how much time you spend ruminating about your divorce. Allow yourself so much time a day to work on or think about your divorce and then distract yourself with activities that relax and bring you enjoyment.
3. Stay Connected with Friends and Family:
It’s important to have a strong support system during a divorce. Reach out to close friends and family members and let them know you need their support. Be sure to stay connected with friends and family who can uplift you in a positive manner.Limit contact with friends and family who are only interested in gossiping and impact you negatively.
4. Eat Well and Exercise Regularly:
Eating a balanced diet and exercising regularly will help to keep your body and mind healthy. Exercise is especially helpful for reducing stress and releasing tension.
5. Spend Time Outdoors:
Nature has a calming and restorative effect on the mind and body. Spending time outdoors can help to reduce stress levels and give you a sense of peace and calm.
If it’s nothing but a daily walk around the block nature and moving your body is the best thing you can do for yourself emotionally.
It’s normal to feel hurt or angry or even need revenge while going through the divorce process. I recommend talking these feelings out with a counselor or therapist to ensure your mind is clear and your emotions are separate from the legal process of your divorce. You’ll come out ahead of the game if you take care of those negative emotions while going through your divorce.