If you had a sizable wedding, you probably followed these traditions: You listened to various bands before choosing the music; you tasted food from different caterers before hiring a chef; and you studied portfolios before selecting a photographer. When you go through a divorce, it’s equally important to surround yourself with individuals who offer the services and advice you need. In this article, we’ll give you information on how to find and retain a divorce attorney who’s right for you.
Good Referral Sources
Many people find a divorce lawyer through a professional’s recommendation. Clergy, therapists, and marriage counselors may all be able to suggest
Probably the most common way to get the name of a family-law attorney is through another family attorney. You might already have a business lawyer, or maybe the lawyer who drew up your will is a friend and can recommend someone. Suppose you’ve gone to see one family lawyer, and you want the names of a few others. He or she will not be reluctant to give you some, especially if you explain that you can’t afford the quoted fees.
Another source of referrals is friends who have been divorced. Sometimes they will recommend their ex-spouse’s family lawyer over their own, particularly if they thought they got the short end of the stick in the settlement. This, too, is a good way to get started.
Your local bar association might also have the names of attorneys who do divorce-law work, but that’s a step away from using the Yellow Pages. Remember, lawyers can generally make it into the bar association list simply by joining the association, not by showing any particular level of expertise. Still, many of those lawyers will provide a consultation at a low fee or for free, and you might find one who meets your criteria.
Some state bar associations have formal specialty certifications. If you can afford it, look for a certified
Your First Meeting
When you’re with a divorce attorney for the first time, he or she will ask you for some background information about your situation. You should be told, briefly, how the laws work in your state and what that will mean for your own case. The divorce lawyer can also tell you which court will handle your case. Is the court in your jurisdiction backlogged? Knowing this could determine your strategy in resolving your case — is it helpful to drag out the divorce or to end it quickly? A divorce lawyer who knows the judges and their individual biases and personalities will be ahead of the game. Unfortunately, a carefully weighted decision by a judge can be less common in some jurisdictions.
Fees and Billing
During this first consultation, the lawyer should also explain his or her fees. Does she take a retainer — a lump-sum payment — up front? That practice is common. As the lawyer works on your case, she subtracts an amount equal to her hourly rate from the sum you have prepaid. For example, if you paid Attorney Greenfield $1,000 and her hourly rate is $100, you would have bought 10 hours of work in advance. Most will quote a flat rate for the retainer. Other lawyers do not take a retainer and simply bill you every month as the case moves along. Some lawyers require that a cushion remain in the retainer until the case is concluded — for example, a few thousand dollars to cover the closing of a matter or to refund to you at the conclusion of the case. Whatever the arrangement, determine the details now. Remember, never sign on with a lawyer unless you have these financial details in writing. Be sure to read the fine print in your retainer agreement.
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How to Interview a Lawyer
What exactly do you need to know before you hire a
Concerning general experience, ask these questions:
- How many matrimonial cases have you handled?
- How many of those cases went to trial? (An attorney who has done a lot of trials might not be a good negotiator. Keep that in mind, especially when the lawyer hasn’t been in practice very long.)
- How many of these cases involved custody, support, business valuations, large financial settlements, or whatever issue feels like your major concern?
- Where did you go to law school? (Don’t ask if the diploma is staring you in the face.)
- Are you experienced in unbundled divorce (or collaborative divorce, or whatever style of divorce you hope to enter)?
- Do you have the time to take on a new case now?
- Do you know my husband (or wife)?
- Do you know his or her attorney?
Ask about day-to-day operations:
- Will anyone (usually an associate) be assisting you on my case?
- What is his or her experience?
- Can I meet the associate now?
- What work would the associate do and what work would you do?
- Which one of you will negotiate the case? (If you want to be sure that the lawyer you are seeing is the negotiator, make that clear. You don’t want an intern performing your quadruple bypass surgery, and you don’t want an inexperienced associate you haven’t met negotiating your divorce.)
- Who will try my case?
- Are you available to take phone calls?
- Is the associate available to take calls?
hours areyou usually in the office?
- Do you have any time-consuming trials coming up?
- Will I get copies of all papers (letters, faxes, legal papers) in my case? (Be sure the answer is “yes.”)
Make sure the fees are clear:
- What is your hourly billing rate?
- What is the associate’s billing rate?
- If both you and the associate are working on my case at the same time, am I billed at your combined rates? (Some firms do that only if two attorneys are needed, such as at trial. Others do it routinely, and others only bill you at the higher attorney’s rate.)
- Is your fee for trial different from your hourly rate? (Some attorneys charge a set fee for every day they are in court.)
- Do you charge a retainer, and how much is it?
- Will the billing arrangements be set out in writing? (Insist that they
- What happens when the retainer is used up?
- Will you keep me informed each month as to how much of the retainer has been depleted?
- What happens if I get behind on the bills?
- Can you collect your fees from my spouse?
- How much am I billed for copies of all relevant documents? (If the fee is too high, you might want to make copies on your own.)
- What extra fees should I expect? (Your retainer will spell out your responsibility for “fees” — what the lawyer charges for his/her time versus “costs” — things like court filing fees, process server fees, excessive postage, messengers, stenographers, or similar out-of-pocket expenses.)
- Are those fees due in advance, and will I know in advance what they are?
- Am I billed for telephone calls?
- Do you have a minimum unit of time you bill me for? (Some lawyers will bill you for five or even 15 minutes when a call takes only four minutes.)
Ask these questions about handling the case:
- Will I have input in decisions concerning strategy in my case?
- Will I be kept informed of all developments?
- What problems do you foresee arising in my case?
- What are your personal feelings about joint custody versus sole custody?
- Sometimes a lawyer has strong convictions one way or the other that could potentially affect the outcome of your case despite the fact that your wishes should prevail.
- Based on your experience, how much do you think my case will cost?
Before you make the final decision to sign on with a lawyer, be sure to fill out the following attorney checklist. It will guide you in your decision – and serve as a reminder about your agreement in the months to come.
After you have decided whom you want to represent you, a reputable lawyer will send you his or her written agreement concerning fees and will give you time to ask questions about the agreement before you sign it. If a lawyer asks you to sign an agreement in his or her office without giving you the chance to think it over, look for another lawyer. Sometimes it’s worth showing the agreement to your business or personal lawyer, whom you trust. If and when you do return the written agreement, you usually have to include the retainer check required as your initial payment.
This article was adapted and excerpted with permission from The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Surviving Divorce, Third Edition (Penguin Group, 2005), by Pamela Weintraub and Terry Hillman. The book offers readers a compendium of practical advice on topics ranging from separation, custody, and legal matters to finances, property division, and visitation schedules as well as helpful divorce resources. The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Surviving Divorce is available at bookstores and online retailers. For more information, visit www.IdiotsGuides.com
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