Your experience in separation and divorce is likely not like driving a car on a straight road. There are bumps and hurdles and some hairpin turns, likely. So, what makes us able to navigate the unanticipated turns gracefully enough to pull away when disaster may otherwise strike? That really depends on you. Staying alert in […]
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If you are in the midst of or contemplating separation or divorce, you have likely heard an opinion from everyone you know, and maybe some you don’t, about what you should do. Whether you choose to separate or divorce is forced upon you, you likely have many questions and concerns. Knowing who to talk to […]
So, you’re getting divorced. Or, maybe you’re contemplating divorce. Wherever you find yourself in the process, the decisions you make now help define what will follow. Although you may be overwhelmed, it’s important that you get the support to make decisions that will serve you well into your future. How, you may wonder, can you […]
How often, in separation and divorce, are you forced to pretend, at least, that you can manage everything that’s happening to you? How often, instead, would you prefer to throw yourself on the ground, acknowledging your grief and fear, and throw a tantrum like you might have done as a toddler? Whether you chose divorce […]
Holidays during separation and divorce can be difficult. Valentine’s Day, in particular, when the world would have you believe everyone else has someone to love, has unique challenges.
By Vicki Vollweiler, Certified Divorce Coach As a divorce coach, I hear one story over and over: infidelity. The person who stepped out on the marriage can be either male or female. In all cases, it seems, one person is left alone… distraught, confused, and scared about the future. One partner is left to wonder, […]