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Name: grm New Member   Title: cheater

hello i just find out my husband has been talking to other women on the phone saying he is single and looking for some to be his companion.He sends them nasty pictures of him and more.I am so lost i dont know what to do! I love my husband so much and to think he would do that to me really hurts does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do!

Name: DoneThat New Member

I agree -- run! Separate yourself from your cheater. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about. It hurts but any man who would treat his wife like this doesn't deserve you! If you don't stick up for yourself then no one will. You deserve so much better -- he wants to act single, let him be single! Create a new life for yourself as I am presently doing for myself and my two daughters. Any self-respecting woman would leave him in the dust. Leave him before you replace love with hatred. Warmest best wishes.

Name: Deceived New Member

Run! My husband has always at the very least "implied" that he was single to attractive women. Occasionally we would go to events only to find out that numerous women would be quite surprised he had a wife - I could see the look of shock on their faces.

My ex and I used to work together and for a couple of months after I purchased a new vehicle, random women would come to the office and be quite surprised to see me there (some did know he was married) and they were obviously quite uncomfortable.

If I were you, I would get away now as he does not appear to create emotional attachments with his wife (and kids if applicable). It stems back to childhood and will not change.

My best to you, take care.

Name: KellyS New Member

I too just found out that my husband of 15 years has been cheating with my bf for the past 7 years as I walked in on them!!!!! and my so called BF wanted to come clean!!! So now I am on my own without my husband or bf. I hate him and love him all the same and feel like I don't know which end is up right now. I want to crawl into bed and pretend this never happened but I have two kids who need me. I don't even know where to start at this point. I feel lost without him. He doesn't want to work on our marriage so I guess I need to protect myself and get support but I hate the thought of even starting this as it means its all really over. Anyone else in the same boat or could share words of wisdom???

Name: help needed New Member

how do i post a question here. forgive me if i just ask away without answering.

if my spouse has an affair within a week of moving out, is it concidered adultery, and how will it affect child custody?

Name: qtpys4 New Member

I am really sorry for you, I know that feeling too well. I was crushed when, after 22-1/2 years of marriage, I found almost conclusive proof my husband was having an affair with a young girl in his office. He denied, denied, denied. My advice to you, is do what I did...hire a private investigator. 5 days after our 23 yr anniversary, we caught them in a hotel room at lunch time. It was devastating...but honestly, I would rather raise our three children alone than to wonder and spend my life with a cheater. I truly hope he stops and gives you what you need to move on and get past it...my thoughts are with you...