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Name: xxallzxx New Member   Title: Pregnant, Cheated and Depressed

I need help. My husband and I have been together 10 years, married almost 4. 2-3 weeks after finding out I was pregnant with our 2nd Child, I found pictures on his cell phone of some girl posing in ligerie in the mirror, photos she sent him. He denied everything at first, finally admitted it was some random girl that saw him at work and said "this is what you're missing" and sent him the pictures. I called his co-worker and he told me the girl actually worked as a CNA there (he denied they worked together). The phone records showed they were texting for 4 days straight, starting on my BIRTHDAY (which makes things worse). Luckily I caught this right away, so I have to take his word that nothing else happened, only naked picture texting (HUNDREDS of texts throughout the 4 days). However, now it's 3 months later, we are trying to move on, but I can't stop thinking about what he did. He started an affair right after finding out we're having a baby, and started the affair ON MY BIRTHDAY. Since I caught it right away, he says he never actually cheated (physically hooked up with her) however, it WAS cheating and even if he DID hook up he would never adit it. I am trying my best to hold our marriage together, but I feel so huurt, so emotion al and depressed about the whole thing, I cause more arguments and push him away even more. I can't trust him, he still works with the girl. I don't know what to do. He applied for another job, but they haven 't called him yet, so I'm stuck dealing with him seeing her everyday. I'm so lost, so empty... I need help. I cry almost everyday. Being pregnant doesn't help :(

Name: countryflower New Member

First of all your most important thing right now is the baby, go to a support group to talk, you do not want this to affect your unborn child.