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Name: Crystal9 New Member   Title: Sex with others while separated?

My Husband and I are separated, but we are very close friends (have to be, we have 8 children). He is currently living with neighbors until he can buy a house in our neighborhood. We are both getting frustrated sexually, but know it is not a good idea to sleep together. We've been thinking of going to a swinger party because neither of us wants to have any emotional attachments, but we've been monogamous for so long we don't know how to get over the hurdle. Any advice, thoughts, cautions? He is getting to the point where this is affecting his parenting abilities and I'd like us to focus on setting some kind of normalcy for our children.

Name: Distraught New Member

That's a new one. Morals would be in question if you attend a swinger party and think of the impact on your children if they were to discover this. are you afraid that if you have sex with your husband that you may reignite feelings for eachother? is that so bad? very confused about your situation, but i can understand sexual needs as well. probably time to divorce amicably and move on to new partners.