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Name: Harajuku New Member   Title: Passwords/Accounts

Hi everyone,

I wanted to conduct a poll, based on a question that I have; which is currently causing issues in my relationship. FYI, not married, but together for 4 yrs and engaged for 3 yrs (we also have been living together for 3 yrs.)

**For the already divorced folks**

1) Did you and your spouse have access/passwords to each others: email, voicemail, social networking, etc?

I might be completely wrong, but I believe if you have nothing to hide then everything should be accessible. Please educate me...I am open to all opinions.

And please mention why you got divorced too :-)

Thank you

Name: lonelygirl New Member

We are still married but share passwords. I have private accounts he does not know about!!

Name: JcHolloway New Member

I had almost no control with anything. I like your idea because my ex thought it was normal to keep secrets. He would tell me often and wanted to be left alone. I think trust needs to be a part of your equation because each of you are individuals. You cannot absolutely be sure about everything even if you know passwords. You will need to trust to some extent. I believe there should be no secrets (what is there to hide?). However, there needs to be trust. Did I mention trust?

Name: MiNam New Member

Well, I am not divorced yet, My husband ran away. He always talked about privacy so he never told me any password any family member. We were together for 4 years, but I still dont know his mom. I feel so stupid now that I realize he was fake. He asked me to marry him and we lived together 4months but he just ran away without word, i could not contact him over phone and i dont know where did hi move. I know where he works at, but I dont know if i should go there and talk to him. I am going to file for divorce and i dont know what to do. Also he sopouse to pay for rings which he bought it with my credit card. Well I got it for us. Man I am so stupid.
What should i do.