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Name: bpd New Member   Title: In order to reconcile wife want's 60k

My wife and I have been embroiled in a bitter divorce process and are attempting to reconcile. Since there is a prenup and she has little money she's demanding I pay her $25k in attorney's fees as well as transfer $35k from my premarital assets to hers. Seem like quite the bribe.

Name: divorceiswrong New Member

So glad you are trying to reconcile, especially after much bitterness. I wish more people were like you. Please don't give up. It sounds like money is a big issue, and I imagine it has been in the past. Since you're both open to reconciling, it probably would be very helpful to talk with an experienced counselor who supports reconciliation and marriage about working out the issues behind the money demands. Good luck.

Name: Lovehurts123 New Member

The love of money is the root of all evil. Seems to me thats whats she wants. You have to step back and look in at you situation. Did she ask you to help pay or demand that you pay? What got you to the place you are now? Reconciling for the right reasons is a great thing and not worth if its not.

Name: JcHolloway New Member

How much do you love her? That is all that matters. Money is just money. If you have enough to share for her to feel it is no longer about the money then I would suggest trying. That is the right thing to do, I think. It still may not work out. I can tell you from experience that how we deal with the assets actually reflects on our own character. The question is, How much do you love her? Any children? That would make it even more important. Hope it works out.