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Name: Kare0608 New Member   Title: Temporary Relocation

Ok, so this is long and complicated, so bear with me. My husband has two children with his ex, we married a little over 2 years ago, my husband has primary custody, she was gone for a year ever since which i'd been taking care of those two as my own, when it came for us to relocate to Canada where i'm from(long story i was being deported) his parents had a fit and went to find her to start fighting for them to stay in New Hampshire. so 6 months later she finally gives up all the court bs and signs over temporary relocation for a year. Everything had been going great, she got to see the children every month, she was happy about how things were going, she got engaged and yet again forgot about her kids and went to texas for 3 months, and hadn't seen them in 4 months, we tried everything above and beyond the visitation schedule to even offer to fly them down to see her in texas, she declined. on top of all of this she hasnt paid child support(of which we never cared about in the first place) she never calls, and pretty much fell under extreme parental neglect under New Hampshire Law. But my husband's parents once again convinced her to move back in with them, and now she's delusional and thinks the kids should be with her, and is going to start this battle all over again because she's being manipulated and thinks they need her. (no doubt about the fact that she should be in their lives) but she all of a sudden wants us back in the states. after the kids finally settled down for the first time in 2 years, she thinks its best for them to uproot once again and find new friends and a new home because she's gone completely insane again. my question is after letting the kids put down roots again, can she really bring us back, or does she have to prove that this move was really not in their best interest? help please