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Name: moscow New Member   Title: Ex-wife using the kids

Hi, well, I am new to this, but I was hoping to get a direction. My husband's ex-wife is nuts (I know, I know, thats how it is..). Well the part that bothers me, or all of us, actually, is that she is constantly telling his kids about how bad it is. She has drawn disturbing pictures, called him many racial names, told the kids she is sorry they are bi-racial, drew my husband hanging from a tree with blood dripping, tell them that we are starving them, that we are brainwashing them, and many others. She also goes to school every day for lunch on the weeks we have the kids (its week on and week off). She buys them lunch or brings them and gets rid of our lunches, redoes their hair while they are in school... and it goes on. We are so frustrated, its not funny. Every chance she gets she interferes, and the poor kids are so confused! Yet she is pleasant and smily whenever we see her, and only was nasty to us a couple of times. Oh, by the way she cheated on my new husband and married the guy she did it with.... First, I thought this would pass, but it has been 4 years.... Does anyone know if I can legally do something for her to leave us along and stop torturing the kids, its them that we feel so bad for. Help?

Name: marthac New Member

I don't know where you live, but there was a show on parental alienation that just aired on TV this week: http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVN
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and try this site http://www.stopparentalalienation.org/

good luck

Name: The Parentectomy New Member

Your step-children are experiencing Parental Alienation and it is a form of child abuse. Try to find an expert on Parental Alienation or a co-parenting specialist near you that can help the children.