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Name: guyspoon New Member   Title: California Alimony

Spouse has asked for 2200 per month in Spousal Support, must respond soon. Is there any way to respond for a reduced amount or no spousal support?

Name: rstevens New Member

how long married ? any children? do u both work how much does she contribute? did she give up a career to marry u? why a reduced amount courts are pretty fair in ca.

Name: rstevens New Member

i need help myself ive beendivorced 25 years with life time alimony as he didnt want to do it at time ofdivorce. i mean even split of commu nity property.so he thought he would play games. hes remarried 24 years and instead of one third of net income and paying off mortgage on my condo he thought he could oit monthly because we had 5 children and have 10 grandchildren and i wanted to keep peace in the family and so we have all beenvery nice to new wife children and grandchildren and have included her with the most respect and as aperson who contributed tho she didnt but because of the respect for the father everybody treated her as she contributed the most the chidren at the time of divorce were either married or in colledge all are married with children and homes of thier own one is finacially little bit more secure so and shes the youngest age 45 with 4 children living overseas so her dad who has used her wealthy friends to further his business{insurance} as a excuse thats how he gives me the mother the money he suposed to give each month he lives in a 2 million dollor house and she has plastic surgery all the time plus age 54 to his 76 they spent 300,000 for invitro that didnt work and they spend 10000 a year on a beverly hills health club per person unless i sighn off on a ins policy that means i could sur her for the amount incase of his death he refuses to give me 2000$ amonth even th i worked and made the man 1million dollars in cash from sales of remodeled homes in bhiils.ca. i never saw the money as he invested in boats,postoffice. nyc. apts and what other schemes. i worked thuout the marriage and paid for all my own cars maids and clothes and took care and raised 5 children. he took all the finaces. and all the business accounts and drained all the money out of our accounts when he met this stewardess on a delta flight who at the time was a drug addict and had a boyfriend in puerto rico plus a girlfriend who went into la innerciti to do some sort of chicken rites this sounds like a hoolywood story but its real im now 74 and taking care of my 95 year old mom in palm springs and he told the chilldren he has not provided for them and grandchildren or me as he has to worry about de who is 25 years his junior what will she do without him.. he has given her a 2 million $ house as her sole property 1 million in stocks and a million $ ins policy and the have no children she only has 2 nieces and a girlfriend and a dancer friend plus she has sued her aunt for some of her late mothers legacy and her stepfathers wife for part of his million dollar lotto he won in new jersey she has won all her cases in new jersey so she must have a nose for goood attorneys and she told my ex who turned over everything to her under no circunstances either myself or his children or grandchildren are getting anything s she will not sign it or shell leave him. my ex has threaten me if i start trouble he will take matters in his own hands and it wont be a happy endinng as hes originally from miami and nyc and hhad friends of a certain element which means i could have a terrible accident he also informed our childre ages 50/45/ 55/ that they better give me a warning or it wont be a happy ending as he cannot fight de./this sound like a movie but its real and this man has always gotten away with this even when this women chased his mother age 90 from thier bhill house when she camme to vist for 1 wk from miami who died soon after that and said his new wife and mother were witches of course she was from italy and we sort of believed her but because of age thought she was delusional

Name: bella123 New Member

Does your spouse work?

Name: madalex Member

Need way more info. How long have you been married? How much money do you make? How much money does she make? What does your attorney say?