VIDEO: Divorce and The Fairy Stepmother

By: Diana Shepherd
March 30, 2016

 

Diana Shepherd, the Editorial Director and Co-Founder of Divorce Magazine, appeared on the Divorce View show recently with co-hosts Joanie Winberg and Rosalind Sedacca to discuss how to become a good stepmother.

Here are some of the helpful tips she offered to support the viewers:

  1. When one or both spouses have children from a previous marriage, the failure rate for second marriages is higher than for first marriages
  2. The secret sauce to making a blended family work is love, compassion, and patience.
  3. You have to start with love – not looking for evidence that your spouse’s kids are worthy of your love.
  4. Anyone who is marrying a divorced man or woman with children needs to really KNOW that they are marrying a family. This is the core of what will make a remarriage successful.
  5. Step-parenting is the hardest job you’ll ever love: It’s complicated and rewarding at the same time. You have to work at it religiously at first: a good relationship with your step kids and your spouse’s ex will not just happen.
  6. Kill your spouse’s ex with kindness – especially when you don’t feel like it.
  7. Fake it until you make it: acting like you love the kids (and the ex, if possible) will cause a positive shift in your relationship, which will end up with you really loving them.
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