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"My husband and I have considerable assets (property, businesses, art, etc.). Will mediation work for us? Is it even wise to mediate?"

I always consider mediation to be a good idea, if the spouses can determine the values of your assets. Mediation is less expensive, quicker, and less painful. It reduces animosity. However, it’s important to remember that you and your spouse have to be able to discuss things amicably and make decisions together.