• Alimony Payments
• Asset/Property issues
• Child Support issues
• Child Custody Issues
• Emotional issues
• Infidelity
• Domestic Violence

• Financial issues
• Legal issues
• Mediation issues
• WebCast -- Videos on Divorce
• Life Coaching
• Divorce Process
• Domestic Coaching

• "Is there still alimony in New Jersey?"
  New Jersey family lawyer Thomas J. Jenkins, answers: "yes, several different types..."
• "How is alimony calculated in New Jersey?"
  Morristown, New Jersey family lawyer, Christopher L. Garibian answers:". The court will first decide if alimony is warranted, and then determine the amount and the duration of the payments..."
• "My ex-wife and our two kids have moved in with her boyfriend. Do I still need to pay alimony and child support?"
  Morristown, New Jersey divorce attorney Edward O'Donnell answers: "Your ex-wife's significant other has no legal obligation whatsoever to provide support for your children..."
• My husband is unemployed and says he can't pay the child and/or spousal support he owes me. Is there anything I can do?"
  Hackensack, New Jersey family law attorney Madeline Marzano-Lesnevich answers: "Your husband's assertion of an inability to meet his court-ordered support obligations..."

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Asset/Property issues:

• "What Does It Mean When Your Name is on a Piece of Property or on a Debt?"
  People have many misconceptions about property ownership and debt. If your name is on a piece of property or a debt, the legal result is very different in Divorce Court vs. Civil Court or……
• "SHOULD I MOVE OUT OF THE HOUSE? WILL IT AFFECT THE RESULTS?"
  Matawan, New Jersey family lawyer, Charles F. Vuotto answers: "If parties are living in an extremely contentious environment with a high likelihood of domestic violence erupting, it is better if one party moves out of the house to “lower the temperature” and to avoid the much more serious problem of domestic violence…If parties are living in an extremely contentious environment with a high likelihood of domestic violence erupting, it is better if one party moves out of the house to “lower the temperature” and to avoid the much more serious problem of domestic violence……"
• "Will I get 50% of our family assets?"
  Matawan, New Jersey family lawyer, Charles F. Vuotto answers: "The division of assets acquired by the parties during marriage is called “Equitable Distribution.” What this means, is that the Court has to award property accumulated by the parties during the marriage in a manner relative to the contributions of each spouse…"
• How is it determined which of our property is marital and which is separate?
  Matawan, New Jersey family lawyer, Charles F. Vuotto answers: "As with most divorce-related questions, the starting point for any legal inquiry is the applicable statute. In this case, the statute is N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(h), which reads that "in all actions..."
• How will property be divided in my divorce?
  John A. Jones, South New Jersey family lawyer from Borger Jones Matez & Keeley-Cain, P.A.,answers:"In New Jersey, marital property is divided by a process known as "Equitable Distribution." "Equitable" means fair and the process applies to the dissolution of a civil union as well as a divorce."
• "My husband and I have been living together during our separation because we cannot sell our house nor afford two properties. How can we make our situation better?"
  Denville, NJ family law attorney Patricia Barbarito answers: "The situation you find yourself in -- living together during separation -- is a common one in this economic climate..."
• "I want to keep the house, but I'm afraid I won't be able to afford it over the long term. How can I make a rational decision about our home?"
  Hackensack, New Jersey CDFA John Cito answers: "When the decision to keep the home is clouded by emotions, the result can be a disaster..."
• "Given the current mortgage crisis, what should a divorcing person know about how to get the best mortgage deals?"
  New Jersey Divorce Lending Specialist Len Rossine answers: "The current mortgage market places the divorcing person in a position which requires factual discovery of..."
• "Are there any particular programs available for someone who is getting divorced and refinancing their home?"
  New Jersey Divorce Lending Specialist Len Rossine answers: "Spend your time seeking out the skill and expertise necessary to help you strategize, qualify, and..."
• "May I leave the marital home? Can I make my spouse leave the marital home?"
  New Jersey divorce attorney David Wildstein answers: "You should speak with your divorce attorney before making this or any other major change in your circumstances..."
• "Can I leave the marital home? Can I make my spouse leave the marital home?"
  Denville, NJ family lawyer Linda Mainenti-Walsh answers: "The person who leaves the marital home often finds him/herself in a disadvantaged position..."

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Child Custody issues:

• "What are some of the common visitation arrangements for children?"
  Many factors are involved in determining the parenting arrangement after divorce, including but not limited to, the parents’ ability to cooperate and communicate, the parents’ historic roles during the marriage, the feasibility of a parenting arrangement considering the work responsibilities of the parents, and the proximity of the parents’ homes after the divorce…"
• "Is a divorced parent required to pay for a child’s college education?"
  New Jersey courts typically view college education as a necessity, and there is a trend in favor of requiring financially capable parents to contribute. College expenses can also encompass more than just tuition, room and board, and can even include…"
• "My wife was a stay at home mom for the past 7 years while I worked. What are my chances of getting 50-50 child custody?"
  New Jersey family law attorney Paris P. Eliades, answers: "Excellent, if you plan accordingly..."
• "My ex-wife has custody of our children, and she wants to move across the country with them. What can I do about it?"
  Morristown, New Jersey divorce attorney Kimberly Gronau answers: "Relocation is a fairly common issue in divorce litigation..."
• "How does the court determine child custody?"
  New Jersey family lawyer David Wildstein answers: "To make its determination of child custody and visitation, the court hears testimony from both parties..."
• "Is there any legal reason why fathers should not be awarded custody of their children just as often as mothers?"
  Summit, New Jersey divorce lawyer Lizanne Ceconi answers: "Custody of children is one of the most difficult issues facing litigants and divorce attorneys..."
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Child Support issues:

• "What are some of the common visitation arrangements for children?"
  Many factors are involved in determining the parenting arrangement after divorce, including but not limited to, the parents’ ability to cooperate and communicate, the parents’ historic roles during the marriage, the feasibility of a parenting arrangement considering the work responsibilities of the parents, and the proximity of the parents’ homes after the divorce…"
• "Is a divorced parent required to pay for a child’s college education?"
  New Jersey courts typically view college education as a necessity, and there is a trend in favor of requiring financially capable parents to contribute. College expenses can also encompass more than just tuition, room and board, and can even include…"
• "Are alimony and child support taxable? If so, is there any way of structuring support payments to my ex to lower my taxes?"
  Red Bank, New Jersey CPA and attorney Laurence Thoma answers: "In most matrimonial cases involving minor children and when the spouses earn unequal income..."
• "My partner and I have two children but were never married. How is custody and child support decided when dealing with children of unmarried wed parents?"
  South New Jersey family lawyer and mediator, Gary Borger answers: "Custody and child support are not determined any differently between unmarried parents who never wed than it is between married/divorcing parents..."
• "My ex-wife has recently married a very wealthy man. Can I now stop making child support payments?"
  South New Jersey family lawyer and mediator, Gary Borger answers: "The answer is "no." A person may not stop paying child support (or alimony) unless there is consent or the court enters and order allowing..."
• "What are the Child Support Guidelines?"
  New Jersey family-law attorney David Wildstein answers: "The court has adopted guidelines intended to provide guidance about what it actually costs to raise children..."
• "My ex-wife and our two kids have moved in with her boyfriend. Do I still have to pay alimony and child support?"
  Red Bank, New Jersey family lawyer Bonnie Reiss answers: "The bottom line is that it's not wise to just stop paying. You will need to file a motion..."
• "Every month, my ex-husband is late with the child support. Should I withhold visitation from him until he smartens up?"
  Millburn, NJ family lawyer-mediator Douglas Schoenberg answers: "This problem typically occurs when communication between the parties is about to break down..."

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Emotional issues:

• "How can I reduce the stress of single parenting during the holidays?"
  Woodbury, New Jersey family lawyer in the law firm of Trace and Jenkins, LLC, Thomas Jenkins answers:"It is also a time when we look to old and comfortable memories of our childhood..."
• How can I reduce the amount of harm my divorce will cause my children?
  Matawan, New Jersey family lawyer, Charles F. Vuotto answers: "There are a multitude of things that divorcing parties can do to reduce the negative impact of divorce upon their children..."
• "After divorce, what can I do to make a healthy transition that would give me and my family a hopeful outlook to the future?"
  Charlotte Eulette, the North American Director of the Celebrant Foundation, answers: "After going through the "real life" upheaval and anxiety of a divorce..."
• "I've heard of people having 'divorce ceremonies'. What's that all about?"
  Charlotte Eulette, the North American Director of the Celebrant Foundation, answers: "In a ceremony of this kind, friends and family gather for their honored friend..."

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Financial issues:

• "CAN I MAKE MY SPOUSE SIGN A JOINT TAX RETURN IF WE DIVORCE?"
  "While a divorce case is pending and the parties are still married, if it makes financial sense to file a joint tax return to save money, the parties should do so. The Court has the power to compel parties to file a joint return or issue a credit to the party who lost money……"
• "What can I do to save time and money during my divorce?"
  "Divorces tend to be extremely costly and consume an exorbitant amount of time for the parties and legal professionals involved. Time equates to money when matters are litigated. In order to save time and money …"
• THE BUCK STOPS HERE": Can I stop paying alimony when I retire?
  New Jersey family law attorney Erin B. Schneiderman, answers: "the answer is -- it depends..."
• How do I handle tax blackmail?
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers: "Income tax cheating is very common. The problem comes up when one spouse threatens to tell the IRS about under-reporting of income..."
• Can financial information make the difference...?
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers: Financial records are of critical importance. You need records of money received and spent, and the more complete they are the better off you are.
• Do you want to pay alimony? --  Maybe yes
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers: There are several reasons why you might want to pay alimony aside from a sense of duty or a desire to be fair...
• What are the most common financial mistakes in a divorce?
  Matawan, New Jersey family lawyer, Charles F. Vuotto answers: "The following represent the ten most common financial mistakes that people make as they proceed in a divorce action. One of the most time consuming..."
• "I'm worried that this divorce is going to ruin me financially. Do you have any tips to prevent this?"
  Woodbridge, NJ divorce attorney Albertina Webb answers: "Divorce can be devastating -- whether you initiated the filing of the divorce papers or are on the receiving end..."
• "How can I keep my legal bills under control?"
  Summit, New Jersey divorce attorney Lizanne Ceconi answers: "As the client, you should be part of the team putting together your case..."
• "I'm a business owner going through a divorce and I've been told that I need to be concerned about 'double dipping'; could you please explain what this is and how it might affect me?"
  Princeton, New Jersey CPA Noel Capuano answers: "When contemplating divorce, there are many complex issues to become familiar with..."
• "How can I be sure I'm getting the best possible settlement?"
  Red Bank, New Jersey family lawyer Peter Paras answers: "You are entitled to obtain the information you and your divorce lawyer need to make informed decisions..."
• "Do I really need to use a financial advisor?"
  Hackensack, New Jersey CDFA John Cito answers: "Using a financial advisor helps ensure a fair and equitable divorce settlement..."
• "I want a divorce, but I don't think I can afford it. What should I do?"
  Woodbridge, New Jersey family-law attorney Jeffrey Epstein answers: "Many people who want to terminate their marriages are intimidated by high legal fees..."
• "How much will my divorce cost?"
  NJ divorce lawyer David Wildstein answers: "The extent of the assets, the complexity of the issues, and cooperation of the parties are significant factors..."
• "I am not certain that my divorce lawyer has a good handle on the financial aspects of my divorce; I'm not convinced I'm getting my fair share. What should I do?"
  Red Bank, NJ CPA and lawyer Laurence Thoma answers: "Many good divorce attorneys may not be trained to assess the true income from certain properties or businesses..."
• "My career was raising the kids. My divorce attorney mentioned I would be entitled to Social Security benefits via my soon-to-be-ex-husband's record. How does this work?"
  New Jersey CPA Henry Guberman answers: "There are two basic scenarios by which you can collect benefits using your husband's record..."
• "Is it better to give or receive one large lump-sum payment up-front or monthly spousal-support payments?"
  NJ CPA Henry Guberman answers: "Here are some pros and cons to consider, from the perspective of the person who would be paying..."
• "Can a New Jersey court make a parent to carry life insurance for the benefit of a child?"
  Southern New Jersey divorce lawyer Joseph Weinberg answers: "The obligation to support a child is more multi-faceted then just a paying a set sum each week..."
• "If you are getting divorced and trying to refinance your home in your name alone, what are a few tips to consider?"
  New Jersey Divorce Lending Specialist Len Rossine answers: "First, before anything else, shop for expertise in a divorce lending mortgage banker..."

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Legal issues:

• "MY SPOUSE HAS A HEALTH PLAN THROUGH HIS WORK; WILL I STILL BE COVERED BY THE PLAN AFTER WE DIVORCE?"
  Upon final Judgment of Divorce, a spouse can no longer be part of the family plan or employee and spouse plan he was during the marriage. The newly divorced spouse can, however, obtain coverage pursuant to COBRA (The Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act) or…
• If I file for divorce, how can I protect certain assets from my spouse?
  Bari Zell-Weinberger is a Certified New Jersey divorce lawyer and partner with the firm of Weinberger Law Group, LLC. answers:  "In the State of New Jersey, there are two types of 'property'; Separate Property and Marital Property..."
• How do I find the 'right' lawyer?
  Bari Zell-Weinberger is a Certified New Jersey divorce lawyer and partner with the firm of Weinberger Law Group, LLC. answers: "Finding the right lawyer is like finding the right doctor. With the right doctor you need to feel comfortable taking your clothes off..."
• "What are the grounds for divorce in New Jersey?"
  Morristown, New Jersey Divorce Lawyers Salvaggio Law Group LLC, David F. Salvaggio answers:"New Jersey recognizes nine grounds for divorce. ..."
• I am considering separating from my spouse, what should I do first?
  John A. Jones, South New Jersey family lawyer from Borger Jones Matez & Keeley-Cain, P.A.,answers:"Once you are sure your marriage cannot be saved by counseling for you, your spouse or as a couple, make an appointment to consult with a local attorney who is experienced in the Family Law field."
• "Intensive settlement conference (ISC) -- What is it and why do we have to go? "
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers:"An Intensive Settlement Conference is a meeting held at the courthouse. You, your attorney and your spouse..."
• "Early Settlement Conference (ESP) -- What is it and why do we have to go?"
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers:"An Early Settlement Conference is a process in New Jersey where one or two attorneys..."
• "I have an attorney, should I negotiate directly with my spouse? "
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers:"When a couple is represented by attorneys, all negotiations should take place through the attorneys..."
• "Life Insurance - Why Do I Need It?"
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers: "You are required as part of a divorce to provide a sufficient amount of Life Insurance to cover alimony, and child support obligations..."
• "I'm having a dispute with my lawyer, and it's stalling the process. How do I handle it?"
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers:"If you have a dispute with your lawyer, the first thing to do is to talk to him or her. Prearranged meetings in person are..."
• "How do I figure out how much money my spouse really earns?"
  Morris, Warren and Sussex County, New Jersey family lawyer, Ann O'Flanagan answers:"Most people think of salary or a paycheck as earnings. But earnings can take many forms, and your spouse could hide them..."
• "I've heard that women always do worse in mediation than in the traditional process (each side hiring a lawyer). How can I be sure I won't get ripped off?"
  South New Jersey family lawyer and mediator, Gary Borger answers: "It cannot generally be said generally that women do worse in mediation than they do in the traditional adversary system involving negotiations..."
• "Do grandparents have visitation rights with their grandchildren in New Jersey?"
  John A. Jones, South New Jersey family lawyer from Borger Jones Matez & Keeley-Cain, P.A.,answers: "In New Jersey, visitation rights of grandparents are controlled by a statute, N.J.S.A. 9:2-7.1. If a parent denies a grandparent the right to visit..."
• Is it possible for a mediator to be completely neutral?"
  South New Jersey family lawyer and mediator, Gary Borger answers: "A mediator MUST be 'completely neutral.' That is part of the definition of a mediator. Part of a mediator's training..."
• "I need to discuss certain aspects of my case. Can I call my spouse's lawyer if mine is out of town?"
  South New Jersey family lawyer and mediator, Gary Borger answers: "The simple answer is "no." An attorney is ethically prohibited from speaking with a person who is represented by an attorney..."
• "What is the difference between a contested divorce and an uncontested divorce?"
  South New Jersey family lawyer and mediator, Gary Borger answers: "From the perspective of attorneys, judges, and the court system, an uncontested divorce..."
• My ex-spouse exercises visitation with my kids, but I want to move with them to another state. Can I go?
  Matawan, New Jersey family lawyer, Charles F. Vuotto answers: "It depends. The Supreme Court of our State has established that a custodial parent who seeks removal of a child outside of the state of New Jersey..."
• "How do I ask my spouse for a divorce?"
  Morristown, New Jersey divorce attorney Alison Leslie answers: "In telling your spouse that you are contemplating a divorce, you must be very delicate in your approach..."
• "Do I need a lawyer to get a divorce?"
  Morristown, New Jersey family lawyer Alison Leslie answers: "You need someone who can give you the adequate legal advice that is pertinent to your specific case..."
• "Why should I use an attorney before mediation?" 
  Morristown, New Jersey family-law attorney Alison Leslie answers: "Divorce mediation is a wonderful tool to reach a workable solution between you and your spouse..."
• "I built my business with no support from my spouse. Is he still entitled to a share of it?"
  Morristown, NJ divorce lawyer Alison Leslie answers: "You must look at several factors under the equitable-distribution statutes, such as..."
• "I am currently in a domestic partnership. Should I enter into a civil union?"
  Morristown, NJ divorce attorney Alison Leslie answers: "New Jersey divorce law makes a distinction between the rights of a domestic partner and of a partner in a civil union..."
• "What can you suggest to your clients to help them through the divorce process?"
  Morristown, NJ family lawyer Alison Leslie answers: "While a divorce attorney is a professional from whom you need to seek help, they can only give legal advice..."
• "Under what circumstances can I annul my marriage, rather than get a divorce?"
  Woodbridge, New Jersey divorce attorney Cheryl Connors answers: "A marriage may be either void from its inception or subsequently declared void..."
• "I'm thinking of filing for divorce. Do you have any initial advice?"
  Fair Lawn, New Jersey family law attorney John Finnerty answers: "The ten things you should know before filing for divorce..."
• "I feel I should be reimbursed if I helped pay for my spouse's education."
  Morristown, New Jersey divorce lawyer Alison Leslie answers: "You are not alone. I commonly have clients who complain about this very fact..."
• "My spouse has had several affairs; it's one of the reasons we split up. Can I use this against him in the divorce proceedings?"
  Woodbridge, New Jersey divorce lawyer Cheryl Connors answers: "Adultery will have little influence on the terms of a divorce in New Jersey, except in limited circumstances..."
• "How can I minimize the financial and emotional pain of divorce?"
  New Jersey divorce attorney David Wildstein answers: "A divorce proceeding can be emotionally and financially draining to both parties...."
• "My husband knows my computer passwords and I suspect that he may have gone through my electronic files. I'm worried about what he may have read. Is this kind of spying a crime?"
  New Jersey family-law attorney Mark Gruber answers: "The first reported case on spying on one's spouse can be found in the court of Chancery of New Jersey in 1884..."
• "I want to take a kinder, gentler way of resolving our divorce. My spouse seems bent on her day in court. What can I do?"
  Morristown, NJ family-law attorney Alison Leslie answers: "Unfortunately, emotions run high during a divorce. It is an extremely emotional time for both spouses..."
• "What are my chances of getting custody of our children, or at least being able to see them half the time?"
  Red Bank, New Jersey divorce lawyer Peter Paras answers: "Children are not property. Therefore, it is not your or your spouse's rights that are most important..."
• "Can I get a divorce without a lawyer?"
  Millburn, NJ divorce lawyer-mediator Douglas Schoenberg answers: "The courts in New Jersey are open to the public; anyone can file their own papers for divorce..."
• "If you live in a common-law marriage, are you entitled to the same support and property division as if you were legally married?"
  Morristown, NJ divorce attorney William Laufer answers: "The principals of equitable distribution and counsel fee awards do not apply to you..."
• "What should I look for in a divorce attorney? How can I be sure that I'm getting the best possible settlement?"
  New Jersey family lawyer David Wildstein answers: "Choosing the right divorce attorney is one of your most important decisions when ending your marriage..."
• "What if I don't agree with my divorce lawyer's tactics and strategies? Can I get a second legal opinion without firing my family lawyer?"
  New Jersey family-law attorney David Wildstein answers: "It's not uncommon for a client to feel some anxiety about the advice his or her divorce attorney is giving..."
• "How soon will I be divorced? How can I shorten the divorce process?"
  NJ divorce lawyer David Wildstein answers: "Many factors affect the length of time it takes for a divorce to become final..."
• "On what basis may a divorce be granted? Does fault make a difference in detemining the outcome?"
  NJ divorce attorney David Wildstein answers: "New Jersey family law provides the following grounds for divorce..."
• "Should I tell my divorce lawyer the whole truth? There are things I would like to keep to myself."
  Morris County, New Jersey divorce lawyer Patricia Barbarito answers: "The divorce process is replete with the exposure of so much information that often a litigant feels vulnerable..."
• "Is it true that going to court is the only way to ensure you'll get your fair share?"
  Fair Lawn, New Jersey divorce attorney John Finnerty answers: "Litigants who are entering the divorce process should understand the dynamics of the system..."
• "If a divorce involves complex issues, can you still use a mediator?"
  Millburn, NJ divorce attorney-mediator Douglas Schoenberg answers: "There is no substitute for self-determination -- for you deciding how to resolve your divorce..."
• "If both divorce lawyers are settlement-minded, is there any point in spending more money on a mediator?"
  Morristown, NJ family lawyer-mediator David Salvaggio answers: "A divorce mediator, like a divorce lawyer, charges for his or her services on an hourly-fee basis..."
• "How can I help my divorce lawyer to work with my mediator?"
  Millburn, NJ family-law attorney and mediator Douglas Schoenberg answers: "Your divorce attorney's involvement in your mediation and how to influence it is a complex issue..."
• "What is equitable distribution?"
  New Jersey divorce lawyer David Wildstein answers: "The court has the discretion to divide the assets in any manner that it determines is fair..."
• "Can you modify a prenuptial, post-nuptial, or divorce agreement?"
  NJ family lawyer David Wildstein answers: "In determining the fairness of a marital or divorce agreement, the court will consider the following factors..."
• "Can I make modifications to my Divorce Decree? My circumstances have changed, and I'm going to need more support."
  NJ family-law attorney David Wildstein answers: "You have to demonstrate that circumstances prevent you from living at the standard at which you were accustomed..."
• "I want to change my name back to my maiden name. How do I do this?"
  Woodbridge, NJ divorce lawyer Risa Kleiner answers: "In New Jersey, you may assume any surname as long as you are not doing so for any fraudulent purpose..."
• "Is it true that you are automatically entitled to receive alimony for a percentage of the number of years you were married?"
  Morris County, New Jersey divorce attorney Patricia Barbarito answers: "Too often, clients are convinced that the advice they get from a friend or relative is 'the law'..."
• "Can a New Jersey court make a parent to carry life insurance for the benefit of a child?"
  Southern New Jersey divorce attorney Joseph Weinberg answers: "The determination is fact-sensitive and must take into consideration the financial circumstances..."
• "I now live in California but I married in New Jersey. Can I file for divorce in California?"
  Southern New Jersey family lawyer Joseph Weinberg answers: "Before you can file for divorce in any state you must meet that state's residency requirements..."
• "Is it all right to date or have a sexual relationship with my divorce lawyer?"
  Family lawyer and mediator Robert Burg answers: "In divorce law, there is something called 'the appearance of impropriety'..."

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Mediation issues:

• "Should we mediate our prenuptial agreement?"
  Millburn, NJ divorce attorney-mediator Douglas Schoenberg answers: "Prenuptial agreements primarily provide for what happens in the event of a divorce..."
• "What are some of the benefits of divorce mediation?"
  Millburn, New Jersey divorce lawyer-mediator Douglas Schoenberg answers: "Divorce mediation is a way of getting your divorce over more quickly and less expensively..."
• "My husband wants to mediate our divorce -- why should I consider mediation?"
  Morristown, NJ family lawyer William Laufer answers: "It is this disappointment, and the fear, hurt and anger that follows, that can make a divorce so difficult..."

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Life Coaching:

• "What is life coaching or what does a life coach do?"
  A life coach motivates and empowers you to reach your goals and achieve your dreams. Whether you want to be in a loving, intimate relationship, publish a book, or perhaps have more self-confidence, life coaching helps…"
• "What is a divorce coach?"
  “Getting divorced can be one of the most challenging and emotional times in your life. There is often a great deal of uncertainty, disappointment and upset surrounding this life-changing event. It is normal for you to have a myriad of concerns such as…"
• "What is the difference between coaching and counseling? Is coaching right for me?"
  “It has been said that counseling takes you from dysfunctional to functional while coaching takes you from functional to optimal. Counseling often focuses on diagnosing a problem and healing unresolved issues of the past, while utilizing insight and understanding. Counseling typically focuses on the “why” of any situation. Coaching, on the other hand, is… "

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WebCast - Videos on Divorce:

• Family Law - Top 10 Financial Points in a Divorce (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Family Law - What You Should Know About Divorce (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Family Law - Domestic Violence (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Mediation/Arbitration of Family Law Matters (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Representing a Business Owner In Divorce (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Family Law - Domestic Partnerships (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Top Ten Tips When Getting Divorced, I (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)
• Top Ten Tips When Getting Divorced, II (Wilentz Goldman Spitzer)

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Infidelity:

• "I want a divorce because I found out my spouse has been unfaithful. Do I need any evidence? Does it make it easier to get a divorce and will I get more alimony because of that?"
  The short answer is that, in New Jersey, you do not need to have evidence of adultery in order to obtain a divorce. It does not make it easier to obtain a divorce …

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Divorce Process:

• "Can I bring a relative or friend along with me when I meet with my family lawyer?"
  Many clients wish to bring a friend or a relative with them when they meet with their lawyer, particularly for an initial consultation. Having a friend or a relative with you can be helpful to provide emotional and moral support…

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Domestic Violence:

• "I think I'm a victim of domestic violence, what exactly constitutes domestic violence?"
  Domestic Violence” is a very specific category of acts criminal in nature included by not limited to homicide, assault, terroristic threats, kidnapping, criminal restraint, sexual assault, and harassment. Many people have bad marriages and bad treatment and words from their spouses;…

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Domestic Coaching:

• "What is a divorce coach and is there a difference between counseling and coaching?"
  A divorce coach supports you in finding peace of mind, freedom and confidence in your divorce and life afterwards. It may be that you wish to release your anger and upset of your divorce or maybe communicate more effectively with your spouse/ex-spouse...

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